"If we were brought to trial for the crimes we have committed against ourselves, few would escape the gallows"
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Eldridge’s line lands like a moral courtroom drama staged entirely in the mind. “Brought to trial” borrows the language of public justice, but the crimes here are private: the small, repeated betrayals we normalize because no one else can subpoena them. The gallows is intentionally extreme, a melodramatic image that forces a proportional mismatch: the punishment is outsized, so the reader has to ask why the indictment feels plausible anyway. That’s the hook. Eldridge isn’t arguing for self-flagellation; he’s showing how casually we treat self-harm when it’s dressed up as habit, ambition, loyalty, or “just getting through.”
As an educator, his context likely isn’t sensationalist moralizing but pedagogy: the classroom as a place where character is formed, eroded, and re-formed. Students (and teachers) learn early to become complicit in their own diminishment: trading sleep for performance, curiosity for compliance, honesty for belonging. The “few would escape” phrasing widens the net beyond obvious vices into quieter offenses: staying in relationships that shrink you, feeding narratives that keep you afraid, letting resentment sit so long it becomes identity.
The subtext is a rebuke to our favorite loophole: intent. We excuse ourselves because we didn’t mean to do damage. Eldridge suggests the record still counts. By casting self-betrayal as a prosecutable crime, he makes self-care less of a lifestyle accessory and more of an ethical duty, the kind that should make us uncomfortable enough to change.
As an educator, his context likely isn’t sensationalist moralizing but pedagogy: the classroom as a place where character is formed, eroded, and re-formed. Students (and teachers) learn early to become complicit in their own diminishment: trading sleep for performance, curiosity for compliance, honesty for belonging. The “few would escape” phrasing widens the net beyond obvious vices into quieter offenses: staying in relationships that shrink you, feeding narratives that keep you afraid, letting resentment sit so long it becomes identity.
The subtext is a rebuke to our favorite loophole: intent. We excuse ourselves because we didn’t mean to do damage. Eldridge suggests the record still counts. By casting self-betrayal as a prosecutable crime, he makes self-care less of a lifestyle accessory and more of an ethical duty, the kind that should make us uncomfortable enough to change.
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