"If we were the team that won out, then life was good and we felt that we were worth something"
About this Quote
The subtext is darker than the phrasing lets on. "Life was good" isn't about comfort; it's about permission. Victory grants temporary citizenship in your own town, your own peer group, maybe even your own skin. "We felt that we were worth something" pins self-esteem to a collective "we", the way kids outsource identity to uniforms, cliques, and chants. It's also a quietly revealing shift: not "I was worth something", but "we felt" - a shared delusion that can be sustaining, and later, suffocating.
In cultural context, Mann comes from a mid-century America where school spirit and local teams were civic religion and social sorting mechanism. For a future songwriter - a job built on trying to make strangers feel something on cue - the quote reads like origin story. The crowd's verdict becomes the template. You chase the win: the hit record, the applause, the proof that your inner life counts. The price is baked in: when the scoreboard flips, so does the self.
Quote Details
| Topic | Teamwork |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Mann, Barry. (2026, January 16). If we were the team that won out, then life was good and we felt that we were worth something. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-we-were-the-team-that-won-out-then-life-was-138752/
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Mann, Barry. "If we were the team that won out, then life was good and we felt that we were worth something." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-we-were-the-team-that-won-out-then-life-was-138752/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"If we were the team that won out, then life was good and we felt that we were worth something." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-we-were-the-team-that-won-out-then-life-was-138752/. Accessed 16 Feb. 2026.




