"If we win, someone else loses. But if someone else loses, we lose. Which is a point we're not getting. The new spirituality will make this just painfully obvious"
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The subtext is an argument against the fantasy of separateness. Read politically, it’s about zero-sum nationalism and the delusion that prosperity can be hoarded without destabilizing the system that produces it. Read economically, it’s a critique of extraction: if you build comfort on exploited labor, gutted ecosystems, or permanent inequality, you don’t get to call the downstream chaos a surprise. Read personally, it’s about relational math: you can “win” a marriage argument and still poison the marriage.
“Which is a point we’re not getting” lands as a weary aside, the authorial voice of someone watching humanity touch the stove again and again. The real rhetorical move is the last line: “The new spirituality” isn’t incense-and-affirmations; it’s an enforced clarity. He frames interdependence as something the culture won’t adopt out of moral enlightenment but will recognize because consequences make it undeniable.
In that sense, it’s not optimism. It’s spiritual realism with a warning label: the universe doesn’t let you keep your receipts separate.
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Walsch, Neale Donald. (2026, January 15). If we win, someone else loses. But if someone else loses, we lose. Which is a point we're not getting. The new spirituality will make this just painfully obvious. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-we-win-someone-else-loses-but-if-someone-else-153036/
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Walsch, Neale Donald. "If we win, someone else loses. But if someone else loses, we lose. Which is a point we're not getting. The new spirituality will make this just painfully obvious." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-we-win-someone-else-loses-but-if-someone-else-153036/.
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"If we win, someone else loses. But if someone else loses, we lose. Which is a point we're not getting. The new spirituality will make this just painfully obvious." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-we-win-someone-else-loses-but-if-someone-else-153036/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.








