"If we would only give, just once, the same amount of reflection to what we want to get out of life that we give to the question of what to do with a two weeks' vacation, we would be startled at our false standards and the aimless procession of our busy days"
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Fisher's intent is less self-help than moral accounting. By setting "reflection" against the "aimless procession" of "busy days", she frames busyness as a kind of anesthesia: motion that feels like purpose. The subtext is that our standards are "false" not because we choose the wrong things, but because we rarely choose at all. We inherit priorities from employers, social calendars, and respectable expectations, then mistake that inheritance for an authentic plan. Vacation becomes the only socially sanctioned moment to ask, What do I want? The rest of the year we settle for, What do I have to do?
Context matters. Writing in an era when industrial schedules and middle-class leisure were solidifying, Fisher is noticing a cultural pivot: life chopped into work blocks with a small, rationed window for selfhood. Her rhetorical move is surgical, too: she doesn't demand a grand philosophy, just the same level of thought we already know how to apply to travel itineraries. The jolt comes from recognizing that our most careful planning often serves the smallest slice of our life.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Fisher, Dorothy Canfield. (2026, January 15). If we would only give, just once, the same amount of reflection to what we want to get out of life that we give to the question of what to do with a two weeks' vacation, we would be startled at our false standards and the aimless procession of our busy days. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-we-would-only-give-just-once-the-same-amount-168848/
Chicago Style
Fisher, Dorothy Canfield. "If we would only give, just once, the same amount of reflection to what we want to get out of life that we give to the question of what to do with a two weeks' vacation, we would be startled at our false standards and the aimless procession of our busy days." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-we-would-only-give-just-once-the-same-amount-168848/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"If we would only give, just once, the same amount of reflection to what we want to get out of life that we give to the question of what to do with a two weeks' vacation, we would be startled at our false standards and the aimless procession of our busy days." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-we-would-only-give-just-once-the-same-amount-168848/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.











