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Daily Inspiration Quote by Oscar Wilde

"If you are not too long, I will wait here for you all my life"

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Wilde turns devotion into a paradox sharp enough to cut: a promise of "all my life" offered with the petty condition "if you are not too long". That clash is the engine. He stages love not as a saintly, bottomless well, but as a performance of patience in which the performer keeps glancing at the clock. The line flatters and needles at once, an affectionate ultimatum dressed up as romantic surrender.

The subtext is classic Wilde: intimacy as negotiation, and sincerity as something you can only access through wit. "I will wait here" sounds steadfast, almost biblical, until "all my life" overplays it, swelling into melodrama. Then he punctures the balloon with "not too long", revealing the human truth under the theatrical vow: even the most devoted lover wants the beloved to hurry up. It reads like a lover's joke, but jokes are Wilde's way of smuggling in vulnerability without letting it look like neediness.

Context matters. Wilde wrote in a culture where romance was ritualized and reputation weaponized; longing had to be coded, desire often staged through dialogue that could pass as banter. As a dramatist, he understood timing: the laugh lands because the line obeys comedic rhythm (grand claim, sharper reversal). The intent isn't to deny love's depth, but to expose its conditions - the way people use grand language to manage uncertainty. Wilde makes waiting look noble and ridiculous in the same breath, which is why it still feels modern.

Quote Details

TopicRomantic
Source
Verified source: The Importance of Being Earnest (Oscar Wilde, 1895)
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Evidence:
If you are not too long, I will wait here for you all my life. (Act III (spoken by Gwendolen Fairfax)). This line appears in Oscar Wilde’s play as dialogue in Act III. In the Project Gutenberg text, it occurs immediately after Jack says, “Gwendolen, wait here for me.” The play’s original London stage premiere is dated February 14th, 1895 (shown in the same Gutenberg file), which is the earliest reliably verifiable publication/performance context for the wording. A precise page number depends on the specific printed edition; the line is consistently located in Act III across editions.
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Wilde, Oscar. (2026, February 11). If you are not too long, I will wait here for you all my life. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-are-not-too-long-i-will-wait-here-for-you-33388/

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Wilde, Oscar. "If you are not too long, I will wait here for you all my life." FixQuotes. February 11, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-are-not-too-long-i-will-wait-here-for-you-33388/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"If you are not too long, I will wait here for you all my life." FixQuotes, 11 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-are-not-too-long-i-will-wait-here-for-you-33388/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Oscar Wilde

Oscar Wilde (October 16, 1854 - November 30, 1900) was a Dramatist from Ireland.

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