"If you associate enough with older people who do enjoy their lives, who are not stored away in any golden ghettos, you will gain a sense of continuity and of the possibility for a full life"
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As a dramatist, Stoppard is always alert to how societies arrange their characters offstage. Here, older people are too often written out of the main plot and relocated to a separate set. His prescription isn’t reverence; it’s proximity. “Associate enough” suggests this isn’t a single inspirational visit but sustained contact that re-trains perception. The payoff isn’t moral improvement but “continuity” - a long view of the self across decades, a resistance to the cultural habit of treating life as a series of disposable phases.
The subtext is practical and slightly cynical: if you want to believe in “the possibility for a full life,” don’t look to slogans about aging well. Look to counterexamples who disprove the narrative that late life is necessarily diminishment. Stoppard’s optimism is conditional, earned through observation rather than ideology.
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| Topic | Aging |
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Stoppard, Tom. (2026, January 17). If you associate enough with older people who do enjoy their lives, who are not stored away in any golden ghettos, you will gain a sense of continuity and of the possibility for a full life. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-associate-enough-with-older-people-who-do-27682/
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Stoppard, Tom. "If you associate enough with older people who do enjoy their lives, who are not stored away in any golden ghettos, you will gain a sense of continuity and of the possibility for a full life." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-associate-enough-with-older-people-who-do-27682/.
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"If you associate enough with older people who do enjoy their lives, who are not stored away in any golden ghettos, you will gain a sense of continuity and of the possibility for a full life." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-associate-enough-with-older-people-who-do-27682/. Accessed 17 Feb. 2026.









