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Daily Inspiration Quote by Neil Simon

"If you can go through life without experiencing pain you probably haven't been born yet"

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Neil Simon takes a moralizing cliche about suffering and gives it a playwright's snap: the punchline lands on "born yet". It's a neat bit of comic misdirection. You think you're headed toward a standard tough-love proverb, then he yanks the rug out and reminds you that pain isn't an unfortunate add-on to living; it's the admission price. The line is funny because it's blunt, but it also smuggles in something tender: if pain is proof of birth, then aching is evidence you actually showed up for your own life.

The intent feels less like glorifying hardship than puncturing the fantasy of a pain-free existence. Simon made a career out of characters who are chatty, anxious, defensive, and very alive - people who cope by talking, joking, bickering. This quote belongs to that worldview. Pain isn't framed as noble or transformative; it's simply unavoidable, like rent. The subtext is a quiet rebuke to denial and a nudge toward solidarity: if you're hurting, you're not broken, you're just human.

Context matters, too. Simon's stage comedies often sit on top of real loss and strain, using laughter as a social skill and a survival tactic. The line operates like one of his best jokes: it disarms you, then leaves you with a truth that stings just enough to be useful.

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Neil Simon (July 4, 1927 - August 26, 2018) was a Playwright from USA.

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