"If you can go through life without experiencing pain you probably haven't been born yet"
About this Quote
The intent feels less like glorifying hardship than puncturing the fantasy of a pain-free existence. Simon made a career out of characters who are chatty, anxious, defensive, and very alive - people who cope by talking, joking, bickering. This quote belongs to that worldview. Pain isn't framed as noble or transformative; it's simply unavoidable, like rent. The subtext is a quiet rebuke to denial and a nudge toward solidarity: if you're hurting, you're not broken, you're just human.
Context matters, too. Simon's stage comedies often sit on top of real loss and strain, using laughter as a social skill and a survival tactic. The line operates like one of his best jokes: it disarms you, then leaves you with a truth that stings just enough to be useful.
Quote Details
| Topic | Life |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Simon, Neil. (2026, January 18). If you can go through life without experiencing pain you probably haven't been born yet. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-can-go-through-life-without-experiencing-12544/
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Simon, Neil. "If you can go through life without experiencing pain you probably haven't been born yet." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-can-go-through-life-without-experiencing-12544/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"If you can go through life without experiencing pain you probably haven't been born yet." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-can-go-through-life-without-experiencing-12544/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.









