"If you can, help others; if you cannot do that, at least do not harm them"
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A moral hierarchy is hiding in that plainspoken sentence: first, be generous; second, be harmless; and only then do you earn the right to call yourself decent. The Dalai Lama’s phrasing turns ethics into a low-bar, high-pressure civic standard. “If you can” acknowledges unequal capacity - time, money, safety, power - without letting anyone off the hook. You might not be able to fix a life or fund a cause, but you can almost always choose not to worsen someone’s day, prospects, or dignity. The line quietly reframes morality away from grand gestures and toward daily restraint.
The subtext is strategic. As a leader whose authority is both spiritual and politically charged, he offers a rule that travels across religions and ideologies. It’s Buddhism translated into portable public language: compassion as an active verb, nonviolence as a baseline. The quote also flatters and challenges the listener at once. It suggests you already know what “harm” looks like - in speech, bureaucracy, prejudice, indifference - and that ignorance is less believable than inertia.
Context matters: the Dalai Lama’s life is defined by exile, occupation, and the temptation of righteous retaliation. Against that backdrop, “at least do not harm” isn’t passive; it’s a refusal to let suffering license cruelty. The rhetorical power comes from its modesty. It doesn’t demand sainthood. It demands self-control, which is harder to outsource, easier to measure, and uncomfortably within reach.
The subtext is strategic. As a leader whose authority is both spiritual and politically charged, he offers a rule that travels across religions and ideologies. It’s Buddhism translated into portable public language: compassion as an active verb, nonviolence as a baseline. The quote also flatters and challenges the listener at once. It suggests you already know what “harm” looks like - in speech, bureaucracy, prejudice, indifference - and that ignorance is less believable than inertia.
Context matters: the Dalai Lama’s life is defined by exile, occupation, and the temptation of righteous retaliation. Against that backdrop, “at least do not harm” isn’t passive; it’s a refusal to let suffering license cruelty. The rhetorical power comes from its modesty. It doesn’t demand sainthood. It demands self-control, which is harder to outsource, easier to measure, and uncomfortably within reach.
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| Topic | Kindness |
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