"If you can, help others; if you cannot do that, at least do not harm them"
About this Quote
The subtext is strategic. As a leader whose authority is both spiritual and politically charged, he offers a rule that travels across religions and ideologies. It’s Buddhism translated into portable public language: compassion as an active verb, nonviolence as a baseline. The quote also flatters and challenges the listener at once. It suggests you already know what “harm” looks like - in speech, bureaucracy, prejudice, indifference - and that ignorance is less believable than inertia.
Context matters: the Dalai Lama’s life is defined by exile, occupation, and the temptation of righteous retaliation. Against that backdrop, “at least do not harm” isn’t passive; it’s a refusal to let suffering license cruelty. The rhetorical power comes from its modesty. It doesn’t demand sainthood. It demands self-control, which is harder to outsource, easier to measure, and uncomfortably within reach.
Quote Details
| Topic | Kindness |
|---|---|
| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Lama, Dalai. (2026, January 17). If you can, help others; if you cannot do that, at least do not harm them. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-can-help-others-if-you-cannot-do-that-at-24774/
Chicago Style
Lama, Dalai. "If you can, help others; if you cannot do that, at least do not harm them." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-can-help-others-if-you-cannot-do-that-at-24774/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"If you can, help others; if you cannot do that, at least do not harm them." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-can-help-others-if-you-cannot-do-that-at-24774/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.





