"If you can keep your wits about you while all others are losing theirs, and blaming you. The world will be yours and everything in it, what's more, you'll be a man, my son"
About this Quote
That prize is telling. “The world will be yours” is empire language dressed up as character building. Kipling wrote as Britain’s imperial confidence was hardening into doctrine, and the poem’s stoic, managerial temperament mirrors the ideal administrator: unflappable, disciplined, insulated from the noise of the governed. The subtext is less about inner peace than about command. Keep your head, and you earn the right to lead the headless.
Then there’s the gendered lock on the door: “you’ll be a man, my son.” It’s not biology; it’s initiation. Manhood is defined as emotional containment, competence under public suspicion, and the refusal to react on other people’s terms. That can read as empowering in a culture of outrage and pile-ons; it can also read as a warning label, training boys to confuse repression with strength.
The line works because it flatters the reader into solitude: you, uniquely rational, surrounded by chaos. It’s a motivational poster with teeth.
Quote Details
| Topic | Wisdom |
|---|---|
| Source | "If—" (poem), Rudyard Kipling, 1910; opening lines often quoted: "If you can keep your head when all about you / Are losing theirs and blaming it on you" — from the poem first published in the collection Rewards and Fairies. |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Kipling, Rudyard. (2026, January 15). If you can keep your wits about you while all others are losing theirs, and blaming you. The world will be yours and everything in it, what's more, you'll be a man, my son. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-can-keep-your-wits-about-you-while-all-12349/
Chicago Style
Kipling, Rudyard. "If you can keep your wits about you while all others are losing theirs, and blaming you. The world will be yours and everything in it, what's more, you'll be a man, my son." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-can-keep-your-wits-about-you-while-all-12349/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"If you can keep your wits about you while all others are losing theirs, and blaming you. The world will be yours and everything in it, what's more, you'll be a man, my son." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-can-keep-your-wits-about-you-while-all-12349/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.










