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Art & Creativity Quote by Edwin Starr

"If you can make the family life and the music work together that's wonderful. If you can make it work"

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There is something quietly radical in how Edwin Starr frames success: not as fame, not as a perfect career arc, but as a workable truce between the stage and the kitchen table. The line is all conditional clauses, no swagger. That matters. A soul singer best known for turning protest into a hook ("War") isn’t mythologizing the grind here; he’s admitting that the grind can eat your life.

The repetition is the tell. "If you can" lands twice, like a shrug that’s also a warning. It suggests he’s seen the alternative up close: tours that turn months into absence, studio schedules that make you a guest in your own home, the way a public voice can cost you a private one. Starr doesn’t even say "balance" - a word that implies control. He says "make...work", which implies constant negotiation and, sometimes, compromise that won’t look glamorous in a documentary.

Contextually, this is a veteran’s realism from an era when the music industry was even less forgiving: relentless travel, thin margins, and a machinery that rewarded availability over stability. The subtext is that family life and music are not naturally compatible; they have to be engineered into coexistence. The "that's wonderful" is deliberately modest, almost startled, as if harmony is the exception, not the baseline.

It’s a small quote, but it punctures the fantasy that artistry is pure self-expression. Starr is talking about logistics, responsibility, and the emotional math behind the mic.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Starr, Edwin. (2026, January 16). If you can make the family life and the music work together that's wonderful. If you can make it work. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-can-make-the-family-life-and-the-music-131609/

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Starr, Edwin. "If you can make the family life and the music work together that's wonderful. If you can make it work." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-can-make-the-family-life-and-the-music-131609/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"If you can make the family life and the music work together that's wonderful. If you can make it work." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-can-make-the-family-life-and-the-music-131609/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Edwin Starr (January 21, 1942 - April 2, 2003) was a Musician from USA.

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