"If you can make the family life and the music work together that's wonderful. If you can make it work"
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The repetition is the tell. "If you can" lands twice, like a shrug that’s also a warning. It suggests he’s seen the alternative up close: tours that turn months into absence, studio schedules that make you a guest in your own home, the way a public voice can cost you a private one. Starr doesn’t even say "balance" - a word that implies control. He says "make...work", which implies constant negotiation and, sometimes, compromise that won’t look glamorous in a documentary.
Contextually, this is a veteran’s realism from an era when the music industry was even less forgiving: relentless travel, thin margins, and a machinery that rewarded availability over stability. The subtext is that family life and music are not naturally compatible; they have to be engineered into coexistence. The "that's wonderful" is deliberately modest, almost startled, as if harmony is the exception, not the baseline.
It’s a small quote, but it punctures the fantasy that artistry is pure self-expression. Starr is talking about logistics, responsibility, and the emotional math behind the mic.
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| Topic | Work-Life Balance |
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Starr, Edwin. (2026, January 16). If you can make the family life and the music work together that's wonderful. If you can make it work. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-can-make-the-family-life-and-the-music-131609/
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Starr, Edwin. "If you can make the family life and the music work together that's wonderful. If you can make it work." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-can-make-the-family-life-and-the-music-131609/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"If you can make the family life and the music work together that's wonderful. If you can make it work." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-can-make-the-family-life-and-the-music-131609/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.






