"If you can't sleep, then get up and do something instead of lying there worrying. It's the worry that gets you, not the lack of sleep"
About this Quote
The subtext is classic Carnegie: worry is not an emotion to honor, it’s a habit to break. He recasts sleeplessness as less dangerous than the story we tell about it. That’s a quietly radical demotion of sleep’s cultural sanctity; the real villain is the mental spinning that turns one bad night into a prophecy of failure. Carnegie also slips in a moral frame: lying there worrying is wasted time, while “doing something” restores agency and self-respect. It’s a pep talk disguised as practical counsel.
Context matters. Carnegie came up in an era obsessed with efficiency, character, and the emerging promise that psychology could be domesticated into techniques. Postwar America was building systems, careers, and reputations; worry threatened not just health but performance. So he offers an antidote that’s portable and immediate: interrupt the loop. The goal isn’t perfect rest. It’s reclaiming control from the small hours’ most persuasive liar: your own anxious mind.
Quote Details
| Topic | Anxiety |
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| Source | How to Stop Worrying and Start Living, Dale Carnegie, 1948 — passage commonly cited advising to get up and do something instead of lying awake worrying (exact page varies by edition). |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Carnegie, Dale. (2026, January 15). If you can't sleep, then get up and do something instead of lying there worrying. It's the worry that gets you, not the lack of sleep. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-cant-sleep-then-get-up-and-do-something-30697/
Chicago Style
Carnegie, Dale. "If you can't sleep, then get up and do something instead of lying there worrying. It's the worry that gets you, not the lack of sleep." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-cant-sleep-then-get-up-and-do-something-30697/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"If you can't sleep, then get up and do something instead of lying there worrying. It's the worry that gets you, not the lack of sleep." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-cant-sleep-then-get-up-and-do-something-30697/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.








