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Creativity Quote by Taylor Swift

"If you cry over a guy, then your friends can't date him. It can't even be considered"

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Swift turns heartbreak into policy: a mock-legal rule that treats tears like a territorial claim. The line lands because it’s half joke, half boundary-setting, framed in the casual vernacular of friend-group law. “Can’t,” “can’t even,” “considered” isn’t poetic language; it’s the language of verdicts. She’s not describing love so much as drawing a line around loyalty, insisting that emotions have consequences in the social ecosystem.

The intent is protective but also performative. By making the standard comically absolute, she highlights how messy and negotiable these situations actually are. Everyone knows friendships aren’t governed by statutes, yet most people have felt the unspoken “girl code” expectations that arrive after a breakup. Swift gives that silent pressure a punchy soundbite: if someone witnessed your devastation, they’re now implicated. Your pain becomes shared history, and dating the guy reads less like romance and more like betrayal.

The subtext is about reputation management in a world where private feelings become group property. “If you cry over a guy” doesn’t just mean you liked him; it means the relationship made a public mark on you. That publicness is key to Swift’s broader cultural context as a pop star whose love life is treated as content. The quote slyly mirrors her own predicament: when your feelings are observed, they’re no longer yours alone, and the people around you are expected to take sides. It’s funny because it’s blunt; it stings because it’s true.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Swift, Taylor. (2026, January 18). If you cry over a guy, then your friends can't date him. It can't even be considered. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-cry-over-a-guy-then-your-friends-cant-date-10089/

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Swift, Taylor. "If you cry over a guy, then your friends can't date him. It can't even be considered." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-cry-over-a-guy-then-your-friends-cant-date-10089/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"If you cry over a guy, then your friends can't date him. It can't even be considered." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-cry-over-a-guy-then-your-friends-cant-date-10089/. Accessed 9 Feb. 2026.

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Taylor Swift (born December 13, 1989) is a Musician from USA.

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