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Daily Inspiration Quote by Francis Bond Head

"If you dispute with me, you will only quarrel with your bread and butter"

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Pick a fight with me, and you are really picking a fight with your paycheck. Francis Bond Head’s line lands with the cool menace of a man who understands power as payroll. As a statesman and colonial administrator, Head lived in systems where patronage, appointments, and access were the state’s real currency. The sentence is built like a polite warning, but it’s a coercive one: disagreement won’t be treated as a contest of ideas; it will be treated as disloyalty with material consequences.

The phrasing does sly work. “Dispute” sounds civil, almost Enlightenment-friendly, but it’s immediately downgraded to “quarrel,” a word that makes dissent feel petty and personal. Then comes the clincher: you aren’t quarreling with Head, the individual, but with “your bread and butter,” the basic conditions of survival. It’s a rhetorical judo move that turns his authority into an impersonal law of nature. Don’t blame me, blame the necessities of life.

The subtext is paternalistic: Head positions himself as the gatekeeper of stability, implying that opposition is not just wrong but self-harming. That logic thrives in bureaucracies and young political cultures where jobs, contracts, and social standing hinge on staying in favor. In practice, it’s less argument than discipline, a reminder that “free debate” has a price tag when the state (or the ruling clique) controls the pantry.

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Head, Francis Bond. (2026, February 17). If you dispute with me, you will only quarrel with your bread and butter. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-dispute-with-me-you-will-only-quarrel-with-110784/

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Head, Francis Bond. "If you dispute with me, you will only quarrel with your bread and butter." FixQuotes. February 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-dispute-with-me-you-will-only-quarrel-with-110784/.

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"If you dispute with me, you will only quarrel with your bread and butter." FixQuotes, 17 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-dispute-with-me-you-will-only-quarrel-with-110784/. Accessed 27 Feb. 2026.

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Francis Bond Head (January 1, 1793 - July 20, 1875) was a Statesman from Canada.

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