Life & Wisdom Quote by Orison Swett Marden

A lot of self-help flatters you into thinking comfort is the prize; Marden flips it and makes discomfort the proof of fit. The line is built out of bodily metaphors - "growing", "broadening", "deepening", "tonic" - that turn vocation into physiology. Your work shouldn’t simply pay you or even please you; it should metabolize you, like medicine that stings because it’s doing something. That’s a canny rhetorical move: it reframes strain and restlessness, feelings many people read as failure, as evidence of alignment.

The intent is motivational, but the subtext is more demanding than it first appears. "If you do not feel" puts the burden on internal sensation, not external metrics. No boss, credential, or social status can certify your "place"; your nervous system is the authority. At the same time, "you have not found your place" smuggles in a hard-edged moral claim: stagnation isn’t neutral, it’s a misplacement that must be corrected. It’s an early version of the modern pressure to treat the self as a startup that must show quarterly growth.

Context matters. Marden wrote at the height of American self-improvement culture, when industrialization and the rise of white-collar work made "success" feel both newly attainable and newly bureaucratic. His language is the optimistic counterweight: don’t be filed into a role that deadens you. The charm - and the trap - is that it makes perpetual becoming not just desirable, but obligatory.