"If you don't have enemies, you don't have character"
About this Quote
The intent is bracingly pragmatic. Enemies, in this framing, aren’t trophies; they’re a byproduct. If you have character - actual convictions, not a brand of moral cleanliness - you will inevitably collide with someone else’s interests, ego, or worldview. The subtext is that a spotless reputation often signals not virtue but caution: the person who never risks a stance, never says no, never asserts boundaries loudly enough to cost them something.
It also slyly flips the celebrity expectation that everyone should be adored. Newman, who parlayed fame into serious philanthropy and a public identity that didn’t beg for approval, suggests that integrity has friction. The line gives permission to stop auditioning for consensus. Being universally liked is not evidence of goodness; it’s evidence of carefulness, and carefulness can be another word for fear.
There’s an American undertone here too: character as backbone, not charm. You don’t earn it through applause. You earn it when somebody boos and you keep going anyway.
Quote Details
| Topic | Honesty & Integrity |
|---|---|
| Source | Later attribution: Paul Newman (Paul Newman) modern compilation
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Newman, Paul. (2026, January 13). If you don't have enemies, you don't have character. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-dont-have-enemies-you-dont-have-character-92850/
Chicago Style
Newman, Paul. "If you don't have enemies, you don't have character." FixQuotes. January 13, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-dont-have-enemies-you-dont-have-character-92850/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"If you don't have enemies, you don't have character." FixQuotes, 13 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-dont-have-enemies-you-dont-have-character-92850/. Accessed 17 Feb. 2026.










