"If you don’t like me, that’s fine, but you’re wasting your time"
About this Quote
The intent is boundary-setting, but it’s also brand management. In an attention economy, outrage and obsession are forms of currency, and Carpenter refuses to pretend they’re moral battles. She treats negativity as a consumer choice that has already failed the cost-benefit analysis. The subtext is: I’m not auditioning for your approval, and you don’t get to make me the main character of your boredom.
Context matters here: Carpenter came up in a landscape where young women are constantly recast as symbols - of “authenticity,” “industry plants,” “boy-crazy,” “mean girl,” you name it. Online, dislike tends to metastasize into monitoring: quote-tweets, stitches, comment-war sport. Her phrasing short-circuits that cycle by reframing the relationship as non-reciprocal. If your hobby is hating me, you’re the one losing hours.
It works because it’s not a plea for kindness; it’s a dismissal delivered as practicality. Pop stars used to ask to be understood. Carpenter suggests you can misunderstand her all you want - just don’t pretend it’s a good use of your day.
Quote Details
| Topic | Confidence |
|---|---|
| Source | Song: "Sue Me" (2018), from the album Singular: Act I |
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Citation Formats
APA Style (7th ed.)
Carpenter, Sabrina. (2026, January 26). If you don’t like me, that’s fine, but you’re wasting your time. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-dont-like-me-thats-fine-but-youre-wasting-184554/
Chicago Style
Carpenter, Sabrina. "If you don’t like me, that’s fine, but you’re wasting your time." FixQuotes. January 26, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-dont-like-me-thats-fine-but-youre-wasting-184554/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"If you don’t like me, that’s fine, but you’re wasting your time." FixQuotes, 26 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-dont-like-me-thats-fine-but-youre-wasting-184554/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.








