"If you don't like something, change it. If you can't change it, change your attitude"
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Then comes the pivot: “If you can’t change it, change your attitude.” Read shallowly, it risks sounding like the kind of stoicism bosses love because it keeps workers compliant. Angelou’s context complicates that. She isn’t absolving systems; she’s drawing a boundary around the one territory nobody can finally colonize: your inner posture. The intent is survival without surrender. When the world denies you leverage, she suggests an alternative form of agency that can’t be legislated away.
The craft is in the conditional logic. It’s not “always be positive,” which would be sentimental and dishonest; it’s a decision tree for dignity. Try to alter the material facts. If the facts won’t budge, don’t let them author your spirit. The line works because it refuses melodrama and offers a hard bargain: either act, or reframe, but don’t stay stuck performing your own misery.
Quote Details
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| Source | Unverified source: Wouldn't Take Nothing for My Journey Now (Maya Angelou, 1993)
Evidence: Page 87. The widely-circulated quote is usually a paraphrase of Angelou’s longer line in this book: “What you're supposed to do when you don't like a thing is change it. If you can't change it, change the way you think about it. Don't complain.” A secondary citation site (MagicalQuote) lists it a... Other candidates (2) Throw Away Your Thoughts and Change Your Life (Avadhesh Agrawal, 2012) compilation95.0% ... If you don't like something , change it . If you can't change it , change your attitude . Maya Angelou FAMILY ATT... Maya Angelou (Maya Angelou) compilation43.9% ings you do not like if you cannot make a change change the way you have been thinking you might f |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Angelou, Maya. (2026, January 13). If you don't like something, change it. If you can't change it, change your attitude. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-dont-like-something-change-it-if-you-cant-26702/
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Angelou, Maya. "If you don't like something, change it. If you can't change it, change your attitude." FixQuotes. January 13, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-dont-like-something-change-it-if-you-cant-26702/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"If you don't like something, change it. If you can't change it, change your attitude." FixQuotes, 13 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-dont-like-something-change-it-if-you-cant-26702/. Accessed 16 Feb. 2026.








