"If you don’t see yourself, you can’t be yourself"
About this Quote
The subtext is about permission. “If you don’t see yourself” points to the quiet, cumulative effect of absence: when movies, ads, school curricula, and leadership images keep rendering you peripheral, you learn to edit yourself before anyone else can. “You can’t be yourself” isn’t literal; it’s an indictment of how environments narrow the range of acceptable selves. The line also carries a strategic accusation: institutions don’t just reflect reality, they manufacture it. If the camera won’t look at you, it’s harder to imagine a future where you take up space.
Context matters: Chan has been vocal about racial equity in British and Hollywood casting, including critiques of tokenism and the way Asian characters get flattened into stereotypes. Read against that backdrop, the quote becomes less inspirational poster and more bargaining chip. She’s arguing that representation isn’t cosmetic diversity; it’s agency. You can’t fully author your life when the culture keeps handing you someone else’s script.
Quote Details
| Topic | Equality |
|---|---|
| Source | Time 100 Talk (Time100 Summit conversation on representation), 2019 |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Chan, Gemma. (2026, January 26). If you don’t see yourself, you can’t be yourself. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-dont-see-yourself-you-cant-be-yourself-184401/
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Chan, Gemma. "If you don’t see yourself, you can’t be yourself." FixQuotes. January 26, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-dont-see-yourself-you-cant-be-yourself-184401/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"If you don’t see yourself, you can’t be yourself." FixQuotes, 26 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-dont-see-yourself-you-cant-be-yourself-184401/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.








