"If you don't trust the pilot, don't go"
About this Quote
The “pilot” is the obvious literal figure, yet the quote’s real power is how quickly it scales. The pilot is any person steering something you’ve agreed to board: a director shaping a film, a leader running a company, a partner setting the tone of a relationship, even a future version of yourself making promises you’ll have to live with. Washington’s subtext is agency: you don’t get to outsource judgment and then act surprised by the landing.
There’s also a quiet indictment of our modern habit of staying on the plane while live-tweeting our fear. People commit to institutions, teams, and relationships they don’t respect, then survive on irony and complaint as a substitute for exit. Washington cuts through that performative skepticism. Distrust isn’t sophistication; it’s a warning light. If it’s flashing, you either address it directly or you deplane. Anything else is volunteering for turbulence and calling it fate.
Quote Details
| Topic | Decision-Making |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Washington, Denzel. (2026, January 17). If you don't trust the pilot, don't go. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-dont-trust-the-pilot-dont-go-42721/
Chicago Style
Washington, Denzel. "If you don't trust the pilot, don't go." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-dont-trust-the-pilot-dont-go-42721/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"If you don't trust the pilot, don't go." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-dont-trust-the-pilot-dont-go-42721/. Accessed 20 Feb. 2026.



