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"If you go to most third world countries, the older woman dispenses advice to the arguing couple while other members of the family, or even the village, sit around and listen. It is no big deal"

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There is a sly bit of normalization going on here: public conflict as community business, not private pathology. Trisha Goddard, a talk-show veteran who built a career on televising domestic mess in a culture that pretends it doesn t like spectacle, frames third world countries as places where relationship disputes get handled the way weather does: out loud, together, unshamed. The line "It is no big deal" isn t just reassurance; it s a provocation aimed at Western squeamishness about airing family problems, the same squeamishness that often turns into moral panic when those problems show up on daytime TV.

The intent reads as defensive and strategic. Goddard is positioning mediated confrontation not as exploitation but as a modern version of an old social mechanism: elders arbitrate, the community witnesses, the couple absorbs collective pressure to behave better. That s a neat reframing of the talk show as village council, with the host standing in for the older woman.

The subtext is less flattering. "Third world countries" functions as shorthand for authenticity and communal values, borrowing cultural legitimacy from a flattening stereotype. It implies Western individualism is the weird exception, and that privacy is a luxury that can look like isolation. It also glosses over power: when a village listens, the couple isn t just supported; they re policed. Goddard s point works because it flips the usual hierarchy (modern equals advanced) even as it relies on a dated one to do it.

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Goddard, Trisha. (2026, January 16). If you go to most third world countries, the older woman dispenses advice to the arguing couple while other members of the family, or even the village, sit around and listen. It is no big deal. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-go-to-most-third-world-countries-the-older-116469/

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Goddard, Trisha. "If you go to most third world countries, the older woman dispenses advice to the arguing couple while other members of the family, or even the village, sit around and listen. It is no big deal." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-go-to-most-third-world-countries-the-older-116469/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"If you go to most third world countries, the older woman dispenses advice to the arguing couple while other members of the family, or even the village, sit around and listen. It is no big deal." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-go-to-most-third-world-countries-the-older-116469/. Accessed 22 Feb. 2026.

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Trisha Goddard (born December 1, 1957) is a Entertainer from England.

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