"If you had told me when I was 18 that I wouldn't have made it until I was 29, I would have said, Forget it"
About this Quote
The key move is the blunt, teenage verdict: "Forget it". It's funny because it's true; most of us, if given an honest timeline for our ambitions, would treat the price tag as outrageous. The subtext is a quiet indictment of an industry that sells youth as currency and impatience as virtue. For an actress - and a woman in a profession that has historically treated women as expiring goods - the gap between 18 and 29 carries extra freight. That isn't just time; it's aging in public, being evaluated against a shrinking set of roles, and being asked to keep "believing" while the odds narrow.
Reddy's intent isn't self-pity. It's a hard-earned argument for endurance over inspiration: success often arrives not when you're most certain you deserve it, but when you've survived long enough to be ready for it. The line also reframes the romantic idea of grit into something less glamorous: persistence that, at 18, you'd have refused as unfair.
Quote Details
| Topic | Never Give Up |
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| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Reddy, Helen. (2026, January 16). If you had told me when I was 18 that I wouldn't have made it until I was 29, I would have said, Forget it. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-had-told-me-when-i-was-18-that-i-wouldnt-95811/
Chicago Style
Reddy, Helen. "If you had told me when I was 18 that I wouldn't have made it until I was 29, I would have said, Forget it." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-had-told-me-when-i-was-18-that-i-wouldnt-95811/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"If you had told me when I was 18 that I wouldn't have made it until I was 29, I would have said, Forget it." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-had-told-me-when-i-was-18-that-i-wouldnt-95811/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.





