"If you have a child, I said, you have a responsibility at least to stay alive"
About this Quote
Coming from Amanpour, a journalist whose career has been shaped by war zones and regimes that make death feel ambient, the quote reads as both admonition and self-defense. It carries the newsroom subtext that danger is sometimes chosen, sometimes assigned, but always negotiated. She’s speaking to a culture that often mythologizes sacrifice - the brave correspondent, the activist, the soldier, the parent “giving everything” - and quietly puncturing it. Responsibility isn’t only about providing; it’s about not disappearing.
The line also hints at a harder, less discussable truth: trauma can seduce. People who live close to catastrophe can start treating risk as identity, even purpose. By anchoring the argument in a child, Amanpour shifts the center of gravity away from the adult’s narrative of courage or despair and toward the dependent witness who will inherit the consequences. It’s not sentimental. It’s prosecutorial. The child becomes the measure that strips away excuses.
Quote Details
| Topic | Parenting |
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| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Amanpour, Christiane. (2026, January 15). If you have a child, I said, you have a responsibility at least to stay alive. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-have-a-child-i-said-you-have-a-140154/
Chicago Style
Amanpour, Christiane. "If you have a child, I said, you have a responsibility at least to stay alive." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-have-a-child-i-said-you-have-a-140154/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"If you have a child, I said, you have a responsibility at least to stay alive." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-have-a-child-i-said-you-have-a-140154/. Accessed 16 Feb. 2026.








