"If you have a good ear for dialogue, you just can't help thinking about the way people talk. You're drawn to it. And the obsessive interest in it forces you to develop it. You almost can't help yourself"
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The subtext is a quiet rebuke to the myth that writing comes from inspiration alone. Towne’s “you just can’t help” repeats like a refrain, turning artistry into involuntary attention. Obsession becomes its own training regimen: because you’re drawn to the rhythms and evasions of real speech, you end up collecting them, testing them, sharpening them. The “forces you” is key; development isn’t a motivational poster, it’s the natural consequence of being unable to stop noticing.
Context matters here. As a screenwriter associated with dialogue that feels lived-in, Towne is speaking from a medium where talk is action and where “realistic” doesn’t mean literal transcription. Film dialogue has to sound like life while functioning like design: compressed, strategic, and revealing. Towne’s intent is to point to the source code of that design: not studying dialogue as an academic object, but being slightly cursed by it, hearing every conversation as both music and motive.
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Towne, Robert. (2026, January 15). If you have a good ear for dialogue, you just can't help thinking about the way people talk. You're drawn to it. And the obsessive interest in it forces you to develop it. You almost can't help yourself. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-have-a-good-ear-for-dialogue-you-just-cant-164933/
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Towne, Robert. "If you have a good ear for dialogue, you just can't help thinking about the way people talk. You're drawn to it. And the obsessive interest in it forces you to develop it. You almost can't help yourself." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-have-a-good-ear-for-dialogue-you-just-cant-164933/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"If you have a good ear for dialogue, you just can't help thinking about the way people talk. You're drawn to it. And the obsessive interest in it forces you to develop it. You almost can't help yourself." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-have-a-good-ear-for-dialogue-you-just-cant-164933/. Accessed 16 Feb. 2026.









