"If you have something that you know is important to you and vital to you... then this will perhaps help people understand the importance of confronting it and being brave about it"
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The intent is less “be fearless” than “stop negotiating with your own avoidance.” Wilkinson frames “confronting it” as a choice with costs, and “being brave about it” as an active posture, not a personality trait. The ellipses matter too: they mimic hesitation, the gap between knowing what matters and doing anything about it. He’s not pretending the leap is seamless.
Subtextually, he’s also doing something actors often do in public: translating private experience into a usable story for others. “This will perhaps help people understand” is modest, almost apologetic, but it carries a kind of ethical ambition. If his work or his disclosure has value, it’s because it models confrontation as a process rather than a breakthrough moment.
Contextually, it sits neatly in a culture that loves the aesthetics of vulnerability but often skips the hard part: persistence. Wilkinson’s point isn’t that confronting the thing will feel empowering; it’s that it’s vital precisely because it won’t.
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Wilkinson, Tom. (2026, January 16). If you have something that you know is important to you and vital to you... then this will perhaps help people understand the importance of confronting it and being brave about it. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-have-something-that-you-know-is-important-116683/
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Wilkinson, Tom. "If you have something that you know is important to you and vital to you... then this will perhaps help people understand the importance of confronting it and being brave about it." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-have-something-that-you-know-is-important-116683/.
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"If you have something that you know is important to you and vital to you... then this will perhaps help people understand the importance of confronting it and being brave about it." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-have-something-that-you-know-is-important-116683/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.










