"If you have to keep reminding yourself of a thing, perhaps it isn't so"
About this Quote
Morley wrote in an era when self-improvement rhetoric was becoming a mass-market product, with the early 20th century’s faith in “positive thinking” and the cultural rise of the brisk, self-made American personality. Against that backdrop, the sentence reads like a dry corrective from a literary humanist: character isn’t something you can wallpaper over with slogans. If you have to tell yourself you’re brave before every room you enter, maybe you’re scared. If you have to repeat that a relationship is fine, maybe you’re negotiating with dread. The quote doesn’t romanticize authenticity; it’s suspicious of performative certainty, especially when the performance is for an audience of one.
The subtext is almost diagnostic: repetition is a clue. Morley’s “perhaps” keeps it from turning into a scold, leaving room for genuine practice and discipline, but the barb remains. The line works because it treats our inner monologue as evidence, not truth - and it invites the uncomfortable question: what would I believe if I stopped propping it up?
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Morley, Christopher. (2026, January 15). If you have to keep reminding yourself of a thing, perhaps it isn't so. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-have-to-keep-reminding-yourself-of-a-thing-40812/
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Morley, Christopher. "If you have to keep reminding yourself of a thing, perhaps it isn't so." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-have-to-keep-reminding-yourself-of-a-thing-40812/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"If you have to keep reminding yourself of a thing, perhaps it isn't so." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-have-to-keep-reminding-yourself-of-a-thing-40812/. Accessed 26 Feb. 2026.













