"If you have your wife, and you are proud of something she's done, wouldn't you go and support her in something? That is what I was trying to do"
About this Quote
The rhetorical question does double duty. On the surface, it invites agreement - who’s going to argue against being proud of your spouse? Underneath, it’s a soft indictment of the culture that demanded an explanation in the first place. She’s not just defending a specific moment; she’s challenging the premise that a woman’s public achievements, or a man’s decision to stand beside them, require justification. The phrase “wouldn’t you” is gently coercive: it casts the critic as the unreasonable party.
Context matters because Bundchen is speaking as a figure who’s lived through the long, exhausting narrative of the “supportive partner” being treated as a plot twist. Her insistence on “that is what I was trying to do” carries the weary tone of someone correcting a bad-faith read: she’s not performing loyalty for cameras, she’s describing it as default behavior.
It also slips past glamour and brand polish into something more relatable: pride, partnership, presence. In a culture addicted to spectacle, she argues for the unsexy virtue of simply showing up - and makes the demand for drama look small.
Quote Details
| Topic | Husband & Wife |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Bundchen, Gisele. (2026, January 16). If you have your wife, and you are proud of something she's done, wouldn't you go and support her in something? That is what I was trying to do. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-have-your-wife-and-you-are-proud-of-91063/
Chicago Style
Bundchen, Gisele. "If you have your wife, and you are proud of something she's done, wouldn't you go and support her in something? That is what I was trying to do." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-have-your-wife-and-you-are-proud-of-91063/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"If you have your wife, and you are proud of something she's done, wouldn't you go and support her in something? That is what I was trying to do." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-have-your-wife-and-you-are-proud-of-91063/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.






