"If you hug to yourself any resentment against anybody else, you destroy the bridge by which God would come to you"
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Marshall, a prominent mid-century Presbyterian minister and U.S. Senate chaplain, preached in a culture steeped in Protestant practicality: faith as something lived, not merely professed. The postwar moment made that practicality urgent. Americans were grappling with grief, dislocation, and ideological enemies abroad; resentment had plenty of fuel. In that context, the quote reads like pastoral triage. He's warning that the habit of nursing injury can become a spiritual identity, and identities are sticky.
The subtext is also quietly theological: God is assumed to be willing to come close, but the human heart can refuse the encounter without ever saying "no" out loud. Resentment becomes a way to stay in control - moral superiority as a substitute for vulnerability. By insisting the bridge is "destroyed", Marshall denies the comforting fantasy that we can cling to bitterness and still enjoy the consolations of faith. It's a clean, severe sentence designed to make self-righteousness feel expensive.
Quote Details
| Topic | Forgiveness |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Marshall, Peter. (2026, January 16). If you hug to yourself any resentment against anybody else, you destroy the bridge by which God would come to you. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-hug-to-yourself-any-resentment-against-98117/
Chicago Style
Marshall, Peter. "If you hug to yourself any resentment against anybody else, you destroy the bridge by which God would come to you." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-hug-to-yourself-any-resentment-against-98117/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"If you hug to yourself any resentment against anybody else, you destroy the bridge by which God would come to you." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-hug-to-yourself-any-resentment-against-98117/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.











