"If you like your brother and he's prospering, you'll be pleased for him"
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Family is doing a lot of diplomatic work here. On its face, the line is disarmingly plain: affection plus success equals happiness for the other person. But coming from a reigning Gulf monarch and career statesman, it reads less like a Hallmark sentiment and more like a compressed political instruction manual: loyalty should override jealousy; prosperity should be treated as a collective good; internal rivalries are unbecoming.
The word "brother" is the key lever. In Gulf political culture, it can mean literal kin, a fellow citizen, a neighboring ruler, a partner in an alliance, or a member of the wider Arab or Muslim community. That ambiguity is useful. It softens hierarchy into intimacy and reframes power relations as family relations, where dissent can be cast as betrayal rather than disagreement. If you are displeased with "your brother's" success, the problem isn't policy; it's your character.
The conditional "If you like" also quietly narrows the moral circle. It's not an abstract call for justice or equality; it's an appeal to personal bonds as the basis for political stability. Prosperity becomes proof of virtue, and approval becomes a test of loyalty. The subtext is the familiar authoritarian bargain, rendered in the language of domestic harmony: stop resenting the distribution of gains, celebrate them, and the household stays intact.
As a piece of rhetoric, it works because it is too ordinary to argue with directly. Who wants to be the person admitting, publicly, that they don't feel pleased?
The word "brother" is the key lever. In Gulf political culture, it can mean literal kin, a fellow citizen, a neighboring ruler, a partner in an alliance, or a member of the wider Arab or Muslim community. That ambiguity is useful. It softens hierarchy into intimacy and reframes power relations as family relations, where dissent can be cast as betrayal rather than disagreement. If you are displeased with "your brother's" success, the problem isn't policy; it's your character.
The conditional "If you like" also quietly narrows the moral circle. It's not an abstract call for justice or equality; it's an appeal to personal bonds as the basis for political stability. Prosperity becomes proof of virtue, and approval becomes a test of loyalty. The subtext is the familiar authoritarian bargain, rendered in the language of domestic harmony: stop resenting the distribution of gains, celebrate them, and the household stays intact.
As a piece of rhetoric, it works because it is too ordinary to argue with directly. Who wants to be the person admitting, publicly, that they don't feel pleased?
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