"If you live long enough, you'll see that every victory turns into a defeat"
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The subtext is existentialist and political at once. In de Beauvoir’s world, “victory” often means a hard-won claim to freedom - a book published, a movement advanced, a relationship chosen on your own terms. But longevity exposes how quickly gains congeal into new constraints: institutions fossilize, revolutions bureaucratize, personal achievements become identities you have to maintain. Even liberation can turn into a script you’re expected to perform.
Context matters: de Beauvoir lived through world war, occupation, postwar rebuilding, decolonization, and the long arc of feminist struggle. The 20th century offered countless “wins” that later revealed their costs. Her point isn’t nihilism so much as a refusal of easy narratives. Progress, personal or collective, doesn’t arrive as a permanent state; it arrives as an unstable arrangement that demands constant tending.
The sting is also intimate: aging converts accomplishments into memory, then into evidence of what’s no longer possible. The defeat isn’t only external betrayal. It’s time’s quiet repossession of everything you once called yours.
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| Topic | Aging |
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"If you live long enough, you'll see that every victory turns into a defeat." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-live-long-enough-youll-see-that-every-22522/. Accessed 18 Feb. 2026.














