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Life & Wisdom Quote by A. A. Milne

"If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day so I never have to live without you"

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Milne’s line flatters itself as devotion, then quietly reveals its bargaining terms. On the surface it’s a love vow so intense it wants to erase the very possibility of separation. The math is childish on purpose: “a hundred minus one day” has the sing-song logic of a bedtime promise, the kind that feels airtight to a child because it’s exact. That precision is the trick. By turning grief into arithmetic, Milne makes mortality seem negotiable, as if you can outsmart loss with a cleverly phrased contract.

The subtext is less serene. The speaker isn’t only declaring love; they’re admitting dread, and a need to control the narrative of dying. The sentiment isn’t “I’ll survive because I’m strong,” it’s “I don’t want to be asked to survive at all.” It’s romantic and, in a way, evasive: devotion framed as an exit strategy. There’s tenderness in the desire to spare oneself the loneliness of the after, but also a tiny selfishness that Milne lets through without scolding it. That ambiguity is why it hits.

Context matters: Milne is the author of Winnie-the-Pooh, and his genius was always to make adult anxieties legible in a child’s register. Here, the fear of bereavement gets smuggled into a line that can live on a nursery wall. It works because it refuses grand metaphysics; it just names the thing people rarely confess out loud: love isn’t only attachment, it’s the preemptive mourning of losing the person you’ve built your days around.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Milne, A. A. (2026, January 18). If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day so I never have to live without you. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-live-to-be-a-hundred-i-want-to-live-to-be-23660/

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Milne, A. A. "If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day so I never have to live without you." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-live-to-be-a-hundred-i-want-to-live-to-be-23660/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day so I never have to live without you." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-live-to-be-a-hundred-i-want-to-live-to-be-23660/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.

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A. A. Milne

A. A. Milne (January 18, 1882 - January 31, 1956) was a Author from England.

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