"If you must speak ill of another, do not speak it, write it in the sand near the water's edge"
About this Quote
The craft is in the image. “Near the water’s edge” is not a neutral setting; it’s a countdown. Tide as editor, waves as conscience. The line turns ethics into a physical process, outsourcing character to erosion. It’s clever because it acknowledges a reality Hill’s genre often denies: people do want to complain, blame, and judge. Instead of demanding saintliness, it designs a ritual of deletion.
Context matters. Hill, a Prosperity Gospel-adjacent motivational writer in an America obsessed with reputation, salesmanship, and “mental attitude,” understood that social capital is fragile. Public negativity doesn’t just harm the target; it stains the speaker as volatile, small, untrustworthy. This quote is reputational hygiene masquerading as kindness. It’s less “be compassionate” than “don’t create receipts.” In an era before screenshots, Hill proposes an analog form of disappearing messages: say it where it can’t stick, so it can’t come back and brand you.
Quote Details
| Topic | Forgiveness |
|---|---|
| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Hill, Napoleon. (2026, January 18). If you must speak ill of another, do not speak it, write it in the sand near the water's edge. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-must-speak-ill-of-another-do-not-speak-it-20601/
Chicago Style
Hill, Napoleon. "If you must speak ill of another, do not speak it, write it in the sand near the water's edge." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-must-speak-ill-of-another-do-not-speak-it-20601/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"If you must speak ill of another, do not speak it, write it in the sand near the water's edge." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-must-speak-ill-of-another-do-not-speak-it-20601/. Accessed 11 Feb. 2026.












