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Wit & Attitude Quote by Oscar Wilde

"If you pretend to be good, the world takes you very seriously. If you pretend to be bad, it doesn't. Such is the astounding stupidity of optimism"

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Wilde is doing what he does best: turning Victorian moral furniture into kindling. The line pivots on a social absurdity he knows intimately-that reputation is less about what you are than what you perform, and that the performance of virtue is the easiest costume to rent. "Pretend to be good" and you're rewarded with solemn trust; "pretend to be bad" and suddenly the public develops a relaxed skepticism. The joke lands because it’s true in a maddeningly asymmetrical way: optimism isn’t just a sunny attitude, it’s a gullibility machine that over-credits the signals of goodness.

The subtext is sharper than simple cynicism. Wilde is diagnosing a culture that treats morality as theater, then applauds the most conventional script. The world "takes you very seriously" not because it has verified your character, but because seriousness is the posture it reserves for people who flatter its idea of order. Meanwhile, performing "bad" reads as self-incriminating honesty, which paradoxically makes you easier to dismiss: we trust declared villains less, but we also fear them less, because they’ve already named themselves.

Context matters: Wilde wrote inside a society obsessed with propriety and punishment, a society that would later destroy him for a private life it reclassified as public crime. "The astounding stupidity of optimism" is Wilde’s acid verdict on a moral marketplace where appearances are currency and hope is the grift that keeps it all circulating. He’s not rejecting goodness; he’s mocking the audience that can’t tell the difference between virtue and its advertising.

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Wilde, Oscar. (2026, January 17). If you pretend to be good, the world takes you very seriously. If you pretend to be bad, it doesn't. Such is the astounding stupidity of optimism. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-pretend-to-be-good-the-world-takes-you-37150/

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Wilde, Oscar. "If you pretend to be good, the world takes you very seriously. If you pretend to be bad, it doesn't. Such is the astounding stupidity of optimism." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-pretend-to-be-good-the-world-takes-you-37150/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"If you pretend to be good, the world takes you very seriously. If you pretend to be bad, it doesn't. Such is the astounding stupidity of optimism." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-pretend-to-be-good-the-world-takes-you-37150/. Accessed 22 Feb. 2026.

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Oscar Wilde

Oscar Wilde (October 16, 1854 - November 30, 1900) was a Dramatist from Ireland.

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