"If you raise your children to feel that they can accomplish any goal or task they decide upon, you will have succeeded as a parent and you will have given your children the greatest of all blessings"
About this Quote
The intent is motivational and prescriptive: parenthood becomes a mission to manufacture self-belief. The subtext, though, is distinctly late-20th-century self-help: the world is a meritocracy, obstacles are mostly psychological, and the decisive factor is the individual’s mindset. That’s comforting, especially for parents anxious about an economy that feels rigged and a culture obsessed with “potential.” If you can’t control the world your child will inherit, you can at least control their narrative about it.
But the promise is also a little dangerous. “Any goal” implies a frictionless relationship between desire and reality, as if structural barriers, luck, health, and timing are footnotes. It risks confusing self-esteem with entitlement, and optimism with preparedness. The more durable blessing might be teaching kids they can survive disappointment, revise goals, and still feel worthy.
Context matters: Tracy’s career is built on performance-oriented coaching and the entrepreneurial gospel of personal agency. In that frame, parenting becomes leadership, and children become future achievers. It’s inspiring, sure, but it also reveals our era’s obsession with turning every human bond into a strategy for winning.
Quote Details
| Topic | Parenting |
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| Source | Later attribution: How to Raise a Millionaire (Ann M. James, 2012) modern compilationISBN: 9781614482475 · ID: AT7DcuSgo7IC
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... If you raise your children to feel that they can accomplish any goal or task they decide upon, you will have succeeded as a parent and you will have given your children the greatest of all blessings.” —Brain Tracy For years there has ... |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Tracy, Brian. (2026, March 23). If you raise your children to feel that they can accomplish any goal or task they decide upon, you will have succeeded as a parent and you will have given your children the greatest of all blessings. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-raise-your-children-to-feel-that-they-can-30314/
Chicago Style
Tracy, Brian. "If you raise your children to feel that they can accomplish any goal or task they decide upon, you will have succeeded as a parent and you will have given your children the greatest of all blessings." FixQuotes. March 23, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-raise-your-children-to-feel-that-they-can-30314/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"If you raise your children to feel that they can accomplish any goal or task they decide upon, you will have succeeded as a parent and you will have given your children the greatest of all blessings." FixQuotes, 23 Mar. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-raise-your-children-to-feel-that-they-can-30314/. Accessed 5 Apr. 2026.







