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"If you raise your children to feel that they can accomplish any goal or task they decide upon, you will have succeeded as a parent and you will have given your children the greatest of all blessings"

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Confidence is the product Brian Tracy is really selling here, dressed up as parenting advice. The line flatters the adult reader with a clean, measurable definition of success: not messy relationship-building, not teaching resilience, not grappling with limits, but installing an internal operating system called “I can do anything.” It works because it collapses a lifetime of uncertainty into a single parental deliverable, turning love into an outcome and childhood into an investment portfolio that matures into achievement.

The intent is motivational and prescriptive: parenthood becomes a mission to manufacture self-belief. The subtext, though, is distinctly late-20th-century self-help: the world is a meritocracy, obstacles are mostly psychological, and the decisive factor is the individual’s mindset. That’s comforting, especially for parents anxious about an economy that feels rigged and a culture obsessed with “potential.” If you can’t control the world your child will inherit, you can at least control their narrative about it.

But the promise is also a little dangerous. “Any goal” implies a frictionless relationship between desire and reality, as if structural barriers, luck, health, and timing are footnotes. It risks confusing self-esteem with entitlement, and optimism with preparedness. The more durable blessing might be teaching kids they can survive disappointment, revise goals, and still feel worthy.

Context matters: Tracy’s career is built on performance-oriented coaching and the entrepreneurial gospel of personal agency. In that frame, parenting becomes leadership, and children become future achievers. It’s inspiring, sure, but it also reveals our era’s obsession with turning every human bond into a strategy for winning.

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Tracy, Brian. (2026, January 17). If you raise your children to feel that they can accomplish any goal or task they decide upon, you will have succeeded as a parent and you will have given your children the greatest of all blessings. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-raise-your-children-to-feel-that-they-can-30314/

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Tracy, Brian. "If you raise your children to feel that they can accomplish any goal or task they decide upon, you will have succeeded as a parent and you will have given your children the greatest of all blessings." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-raise-your-children-to-feel-that-they-can-30314/.

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"If you raise your children to feel that they can accomplish any goal or task they decide upon, you will have succeeded as a parent and you will have given your children the greatest of all blessings." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-raise-your-children-to-feel-that-they-can-30314/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.

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Brian Tracy (born January 5, 1944) is a Author from USA.

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