"If you say that you're all about a certain something, and look back and see that the choices that you've made don't reflect that, then there's something for you to look at"
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The intent isn’t to shame; it’s to force a reckoning with the gap between identity and behavior. Mattea targets a modern habit: treating values as self-description rather than practice. “If you say…” hints at the performative layer, the way we announce who we are as if saying it makes it true. The subtext is that integrity isn’t a vibe, it’s an audit trail. Your calendar, spending, collaborations, silence, and yes, your voting record, tell on you.
Context matters: coming from a working musician, it’s also a career note. In an industry where image management is currency, “choices” aren’t abstract. They’re gigs you take, causes you attach to, compromises you make to stay employable, the moments you decide whether to risk alienating an audience. The final clause - “there’s something for you to look at” - is the genius. No sermon, no cancellation, just a mirror. It offers accountability without spectacle, a rare tone in a culture addicted to declarations.
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| Topic | Honesty & Integrity |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Mattea, Kathy. (2026, January 16). If you say that you're all about a certain something, and look back and see that the choices that you've made don't reflect that, then there's something for you to look at. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-say-that-youre-all-about-a-certain-95849/
Chicago Style
Mattea, Kathy. "If you say that you're all about a certain something, and look back and see that the choices that you've made don't reflect that, then there's something for you to look at." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-say-that-youre-all-about-a-certain-95849/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"If you say that you're all about a certain something, and look back and see that the choices that you've made don't reflect that, then there's something for you to look at." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-say-that-youre-all-about-a-certain-95849/. Accessed 17 Feb. 2026.






