"If you start by promising what you don't even have yet, you'll lose your desire to work towards getting it"
About this Quote
The subtext is psychological and social at once. Psychologically, Coelho is pointing at how motivation can be fragile when your brain has already been “paid” in applause. Socially, he’s calling out the way public declarations can turn into soft contracts: once you’ve told people who you’re going to be, you may spend more energy protecting that image than doing the unglamorous work that would actually make it true. The desire “to work towards getting it” doesn’t vanish because you’re lazy; it erodes because your ego is now invested in appearing inevitable.
Context matters: Coelho’s novels trade in spiritual striving, pilgrimage logic, and the tension between vocation and temptation. This quote fits that worldview. It’s less a productivity hack than a moral fable about premature certainty. Promise too early and you convert a living ambition into a rehearsed script, one you can perform indefinitely without taking the risk of becoming the person who can actually keep it.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Coelho, Paulo. (2026, January 15). If you start by promising what you don't even have yet, you'll lose your desire to work towards getting it. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-start-by-promising-what-you-dont-even-have-1203/
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Coelho, Paulo. "If you start by promising what you don't even have yet, you'll lose your desire to work towards getting it." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-start-by-promising-what-you-dont-even-have-1203/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"If you start by promising what you don't even have yet, you'll lose your desire to work towards getting it." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-start-by-promising-what-you-dont-even-have-1203/. Accessed 11 Feb. 2026.









