"If you stick around long enough, people start referring to you as a survivor. Suddenly I found myself on the receiving end of several prestigious awards"
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The snap in “people start referring to you as a survivor” is the tell. Survivor of what, exactly? Of burnout, exploitation, racism, the fickle machinery that made Motown sparkle while chewing through its talent. The label is flattering, but it’s also a reduction: a way for institutions and audiences to convert messy histories into an uplifting brand. Survival becomes a category you can monetize, award, and applaud.
Then she pivots: “Suddenly I found myself on the receiving end of several prestigious awards.” The word “suddenly” is doing quiet work. It suggests recognition arriving late, almost accidentally, as if the culture needed distance - or guilt - before it could honor her properly. Awards here aren’t pure validation; they’re a kind of retroactive cleanup, the establishment catching up to what was always true while implying it’s newly discovered.
Reeves makes the punchline sting without sounding bitter. She’s capturing how the music business loves legends best when they’re safely historical: alive enough to celebrate, old enough to be nonthreatening, and resilient enough to make everyone else feel decent about the years they were overlooked.
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| Topic | Resilience |
|---|---|
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Reeves, Martha. (n.d.). If you stick around long enough, people start referring to you as a survivor. Suddenly I found myself on the receiving end of several prestigious awards. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-stick-around-long-enough-people-start-152362/
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Reeves, Martha. "If you stick around long enough, people start referring to you as a survivor. Suddenly I found myself on the receiving end of several prestigious awards." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-stick-around-long-enough-people-start-152362/.
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"If you stick around long enough, people start referring to you as a survivor. Suddenly I found myself on the receiving end of several prestigious awards." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-stick-around-long-enough-people-start-152362/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.






