"If you stop to be kind, you must swerve often from your path"
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Webb’s intent feels quietly corrective. Against the Victorian-and-after cult of moral respectability, she refuses the comforting fantasy that goodness is efficient. To "be kind" requires noticing other people at precisely the moments your attention is trained on progress. The subtext is almost accusatory: if you never deviate, how much kindness is actually happening, and how much is just self-congratulation? The sentence also smuggles in an ethics of inconvenience. Real generosity is not the charitable act that confirms your identity; it’s the one that unsettles your plans.
Context matters: Webb wrote as an English regional novelist attuned to rural life, where hardship is close at hand and social survival depends on informal, often costly mutual aid. In that world, to help a neighbor can mean risking your own thin margins, not posting a virtue signal. The quote anticipates a modern tension, too: the productivity gospel that treats every pause as failure. Webb offers a rival metric. A "straight path" might be admirable, but it can also be a sign of numbness. The swerves are where your values become visible.
Quote Details
| Topic | Kindness |
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| Source | Verified source: Precious Bane (Mary Webb, 1924)
Evidence: He was ever a strong man, which is almost the same, times, as to say a man with little time for kindness. For if you stop to be kind, you must swerve often from your path. (Page 84 (as cited in a review quoting the passage)). The line appears as part of a longer passage in Mary Webb’s novel Precious Bane, first published in 1924. Multiple secondary sites attribute the quote to Precious Bane, and at least one reader review reproduces the passage and gives a specific location as p. 84. However, I did not find a directly viewable scan of the 1924 first edition page in the web results accessible here, so the page number cannot be confirmed against a first-edition primary facsimile in this run. Other candidates (1) The Habits of Unity: 12 Months to a Stronger America…One ... (Elaine Parke, MBA, CS, CM, NSA, 2021) compilation95.0% ... If you stop to be kind , you must swerve often from your path . - Mary Webb , Author , Precious Bane Happiness is... |
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Webb, Mary. (2026, February 13). If you stop to be kind, you must swerve often from your path. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-stop-to-be-kind-you-must-swerve-often-from-162336/
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Webb, Mary. "If you stop to be kind, you must swerve often from your path." FixQuotes. February 13, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-stop-to-be-kind-you-must-swerve-often-from-162336/.
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"If you stop to be kind, you must swerve often from your path." FixQuotes, 13 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-stop-to-be-kind-you-must-swerve-often-from-162336/. Accessed 18 Feb. 2026.










