"If you want a love message to be heard, it has got to be sent out. To keep a lamp burning, we have to keep putting oil in it"
About this Quote
The lamp metaphor tightens the screw. A lamp doesn’t burn on inspiration; it burns on supply. Oil is maintenance: small, repetitive acts that keep warmth and visibility alive. The subtext is a rebuke to passive virtue - the kind that feels holy but costs little. In her world, where care meant tending to bodies everyone else avoided, love was never abstract. It was measurable in time, attention, and stamina.
Context sharpens the intent. As a religious leader synonymous (and controversially associated) with extreme service, Mother Teresa speaks from a tradition where love is enacted, not declared. The line doubles as pastoral counsel and managerial instruction: relationships, communities, even faith itself require replenishment. There’s also a quiet warning embedded in the image. Lamps go out. Not because people stop believing in light, but because they stop feeding it.
Quote Details
| Topic | Love |
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| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Teresa, Mother. (2026, January 17). If you want a love message to be heard, it has got to be sent out. To keep a lamp burning, we have to keep putting oil in it. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-want-a-love-message-to-be-heard-it-has-got-24928/
Chicago Style
Teresa, Mother. "If you want a love message to be heard, it has got to be sent out. To keep a lamp burning, we have to keep putting oil in it." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-want-a-love-message-to-be-heard-it-has-got-24928/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"If you want a love message to be heard, it has got to be sent out. To keep a lamp burning, we have to keep putting oil in it." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-want-a-love-message-to-be-heard-it-has-got-24928/. Accessed 7 Feb. 2026.





