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Love Quote by Mother Teresa

"If you want a love message to be heard, it has got to be sent out. To keep a lamp burning, we have to keep putting oil in it"

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Love, here, is treated less like a feeling than a discipline with a delivery system. Mother Teresa’s line refuses the sentimental fantasy that affection, once “real,” should be self-sustaining or telepathically understood. A “love message” doesn’t count because it’s sincere; it counts because it’s communicated. The verb choice matters: “heard” and “sent out” make love social and legible, not private and self-congratulatory. If the recipient can’t perceive it, the moral work hasn’t been done.

The lamp metaphor tightens the screw. A lamp doesn’t burn on inspiration; it burns on supply. Oil is maintenance: small, repetitive acts that keep warmth and visibility alive. The subtext is a rebuke to passive virtue - the kind that feels holy but costs little. In her world, where care meant tending to bodies everyone else avoided, love was never abstract. It was measurable in time, attention, and stamina.

Context sharpens the intent. As a religious leader synonymous (and controversially associated) with extreme service, Mother Teresa speaks from a tradition where love is enacted, not declared. The line doubles as pastoral counsel and managerial instruction: relationships, communities, even faith itself require replenishment. There’s also a quiet warning embedded in the image. Lamps go out. Not because people stop believing in light, but because they stop feeding it.

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Teresa, Mother. (2026, January 17). If you want a love message to be heard, it has got to be sent out. To keep a lamp burning, we have to keep putting oil in it. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-want-a-love-message-to-be-heard-it-has-got-24928/

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Teresa, Mother. "If you want a love message to be heard, it has got to be sent out. To keep a lamp burning, we have to keep putting oil in it." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-want-a-love-message-to-be-heard-it-has-got-24928/.

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"If you want a love message to be heard, it has got to be sent out. To keep a lamp burning, we have to keep putting oil in it." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-want-a-love-message-to-be-heard-it-has-got-24928/. Accessed 7 Feb. 2026.

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Mother Teresa (August 26, 1910 - September 5, 1997) was a Leader from Albania.

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