"If you want a place in the sun, you've got to put up with a few blisters"
About this Quote
Van Buren was a journalist best known as “Dear Abby,” dispensing pragmatic advice to ordinary people negotiating work, family, ambition, and disappointment. That context matters. This isn’t a rousing commencement address from a CEO; it’s an editor’s tough-love realism, delivered in a single image that lands in the body. The intent is motivational, but with a corrective edge: stop demanding reward without cost, stop treating pain as proof something’s wrong.
The subtext is almost moral. Want visibility, security, influence, independence? Fine. But don’t act shocked when it chafes. The sun can also burn; attention and achievement expose you as much as they warm you. Van Buren’s genius is to make perseverance sound less like a slogan and more like skin. You can have the bright spot, she implies, but you don’t get to negotiate the weather.
Quote Details
| Topic | Perseverance |
|---|---|
| Source | Quote attributed to Abigail Van Buren (pen name Dear Abby); recorded on Wikiquote 'Abigail Van Buren'. |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Buren, Abigail Van. (2026, January 15). If you want a place in the sun, you've got to put up with a few blisters. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-want-a-place-in-the-sun-youve-got-to-put-166878/
Chicago Style
Buren, Abigail Van. "If you want a place in the sun, you've got to put up with a few blisters." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-want-a-place-in-the-sun-youve-got-to-put-166878/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"If you want a place in the sun, you've got to put up with a few blisters." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-want-a-place-in-the-sun-youve-got-to-put-166878/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.







