"If you want it, you've got to give it"
About this Quote
The line works because it flips entitlement into obligation. It’s not "dream big" but "pay up". In a sports culture that fetishizes individual brilliance, Wilkens quietly recenters the collective: if you want the ball in crunch time, you give defensive effort; if you want teammates to cover for you, you give communication; if you want the organization to invest in you, you give consistency when no one is watching. The subtext is leadership without sentimentality: reciprocity is the currency, and it’s earned daily.
Context matters. Wilkens’ era spans player empowerment, shifting locker-room dynamics, and the steady professionalization of basketball. Across those changes, the quote stays relevant because it’s adaptable: "give it" can mean sacrifice, accountability, preparation, or emotional steadiness. It’s also a subtle coaching move. Instead of barking demands, it hands players agency while making the standard non-negotiable. Want becomes a verb, not a feeling.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Wilkens, Lenny. (2026, January 16). If you want it, you've got to give it. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-want-it-youve-got-to-give-it-102259/
Chicago Style
Wilkens, Lenny. "If you want it, you've got to give it." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-want-it-youve-got-to-give-it-102259/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"If you want it, you've got to give it." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-want-it-youve-got-to-give-it-102259/. Accessed 9 Feb. 2026.











