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Happiness Quote by Dalai Lama

"If you want others to be happy, practice compassion. If you want to be happy, practice compassion"

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Compassion is pitched here less as a saintly add-on than as a practical technology for living. The Dalai Lama’s move is rhetorically simple and strategically disarming: he offers two routes - altruism and self-interest - and collapses them into the same prescription. That symmetry matters. It sidesteps the most common objection to moral counsel (that it asks you to lose) by insisting that the “good person” and the “happy person” are chasing the same habit, not competing outcomes.

The intent is almost policy-like: treat compassion as a discipline you can practice, not a trait you either possess or don’t. “Practice” is the key verb, smuggling in a Buddhist assumption that the mind is trainable and that emotions are, at least partly, behaviors you can cultivate through repetition. The subtext is a rebuke to modern fantasies of happiness as private property - curated through consumption, optimization, or personal boundary-setting alone. In this framing, isolation isn’t self-care; it’s a trap that tightens the more you protect yourself from other people.

Context sharpens the stakes. As a global religious leader in exile, the Dalai Lama has long had to translate Buddhist ethics into a universal, portable message that plays in secular rooms. This line does that work: it reads like a self-help maxim, but it carries the weight of a tradition where compassion isn’t soft sentimentality; it’s a deliberate stance against suffering, including your own. The promise isn’t that compassion makes life easy. It’s that it makes a life coherent.

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SourceDalai Lama (Tenzin Gyatso). Quotation listed on Wikiquote: "If you want others to be happy, practice compassion. If you want to be happy, practice compassion."
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Lama, Dalai. (2026, January 17). If you want others to be happy, practice compassion. If you want to be happy, practice compassion. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-want-others-to-be-happy-practice-24776/

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Lama, Dalai. "If you want others to be happy, practice compassion. If you want to be happy, practice compassion." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-want-others-to-be-happy-practice-24776/.

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"If you want others to be happy, practice compassion. If you want to be happy, practice compassion." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-want-others-to-be-happy-practice-24776/. Accessed 3 Feb. 2026.

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Dalai Lama (born July 6, 1935) is a Leader from Tibet.

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