"If you want to be happy for life, love what you do"
About this Quote
The cleverness is in the conditional. “If you want” makes happiness a choice, not an entitlement, and “for life” raises the stakes: short bursts of satisfaction aren’t the point; durability is. “Love what you do” is also pointedly internal. She doesn’t say “Do what you love,” the more romantic and risky cousin. Clark’s version assumes you may not get to choose the perfect job, but you can choose your relationship to the work: curiosity over resentment, discipline over glamour, pride in incremental mastery.
Context matters here. Clark came up in an era when women’s careers were routinely treated as optional, especially once family entered the picture. Her advice doubles as a permission slip: take your work seriously enough to attach joy to it. Under the surface, it’s a writer’s credo: if the work doesn’t give something back, the years will.
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| Topic | Happiness |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Clark, Mary Higgins. (2026, January 15). If you want to be happy for life, love what you do. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-want-to-be-happy-for-life-love-what-you-do-164244/
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Clark, Mary Higgins. "If you want to be happy for life, love what you do." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-want-to-be-happy-for-life-love-what-you-do-164244/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"If you want to be happy for life, love what you do." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-want-to-be-happy-for-life-love-what-you-do-164244/. Accessed 9 Feb. 2026.











