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Daily Inspiration Quote by Margaret Thatcher

"If you want to cut your own throat, don't come to me for a bandage"

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Thatcher’s line lands like a slammed door: not just refusal, but refusal with a lesson attached. The throat-cutting image is deliberately visceral, yanking self-sabotage out of the realm of “bad choices” and into something closer to suicide. Then she twists the knife with the domestic mundanity of “a bandage,” a word that belongs to minor scrapes, not catastrophic wounds. The mismatch is the point. If you engineer your own crisis, don’t expect her to launder it into a manageable problem.

The intent is deterrence through moral clarity. Thatcher is policing the boundary between compassion and complicity: she won’t be drafted as the comforting alibi for someone else’s reckless politics, economics, or personal maneuvering. Subtext: responsibility is nontransferable; consequences are real; and statecraft (or leadership generally) can’t be reduced to perpetual rescue operations without breeding more bad behavior. It’s the logic of hard choices framed as personal ethics.

In context, it fits the Thatcherite worldview that shaped Britain in the 1980s: discipline over indulgence, incentives over sentiment, “no one owes you a bailout” as both policy posture and personality. It also signals power. She speaks as someone who can afford to deny care, who believes withholding help can be a form of leadership rather than cruelty. The line’s rhetorical efficiency - one conditional clause, one blunt imperative - mirrors the political brand: decisive, unsentimental, and unembarrassed about the casualties of letting people fail.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Thatcher, Margaret. (2026, January 15). If you want to cut your own throat, don't come to me for a bandage. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-want-to-cut-your-own-throat-dont-come-to-28172/

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Thatcher, Margaret. "If you want to cut your own throat, don't come to me for a bandage." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-want-to-cut-your-own-throat-dont-come-to-28172/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"If you want to cut your own throat, don't come to me for a bandage." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-want-to-cut-your-own-throat-dont-come-to-28172/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Margaret Thatcher

Margaret Thatcher (October 13, 1925 - April 8, 2013) was a Leader from United Kingdom.

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