"If you want to lose your faith, make friends with a priest"
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The specific intent is diagnostic. Gurdjieff, an educator of inner work, is daring the listener to test their convictions against lived reality. Friendship implies intimacy, the unglamorous access that strips away the aura. You stop seeing a priest as a symbol and start seeing a person with anxieties, appetites, and institutional incentives. In that light, faith built on idealized representatives collapses fast. Not because the divine is disproven, but because the mediator looks painfully ordinary.
The subtext also stings the faithful who outsource spirituality. If the priest’s private life can “make you lose” belief, your attachment may be to an image of moral purity, not to the practice of attention, discipline, and self-knowledge. Gurdjieff’s broader context matters here: his teaching treated most social roles as sleepwalking scripts. “Priest” is one such role, prone to automatisms and status games. The line weaponizes disillusionment as a tool: faith that survives contact with the clerical backstage might finally be your own, not borrowed.
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Gurdjieff, G. I. (2026, January 15). If you want to lose your faith, make friends with a priest. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-want-to-lose-your-faith-make-friends-with-158285/
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"If you want to lose your faith, make friends with a priest." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-want-to-lose-your-faith-make-friends-with-158285/. Accessed 5 Feb. 2026.






