"If you want to make someone feel emotion, you have to make them let go. Listening to something is an act of surrender"
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Calling listening “an act of surrender” sharpens the stakes. Surrender isn’t passive; it’s risky. It implies you’re giving up something - your skepticism, your multitasking, your need to stay on top of the room - and accepting the possibility of being changed. Eno’s subtext is a rebuke to modern listening habits: headphones as wallpaper, music as productivity fuel, tracks skipped before they can cast a spell. If emotion requires surrender, then constant control (scrubbing, skipping, backgrounding) becomes a kind of emotional self-defense.
The context matters: Eno is the patron saint of ambient music, a genre built less on commanding attention than on persuading you to stop demanding so much from it. His best work doesn’t beg to be “understood”; it creates conditions where understanding is beside the point. The intent is almost ethical: the artist can invite, design, and gently steer, but the listener has to meet the work halfway by relinquishing the impulse to manage the experience.
It’s also a sly statement about power. The most moving music doesn’t dominate you; it convinces you to stop gripping the steering wheel.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Eno, Brian. (2026, January 17). If you want to make someone feel emotion, you have to make them let go. Listening to something is an act of surrender. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-want-to-make-someone-feel-emotion-you-have-38603/
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Eno, Brian. "If you want to make someone feel emotion, you have to make them let go. Listening to something is an act of surrender." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-want-to-make-someone-feel-emotion-you-have-38603/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"If you want to make someone feel emotion, you have to make them let go. Listening to something is an act of surrender." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-want-to-make-someone-feel-emotion-you-have-38603/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.








