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Life & Mortality Quote by Gregory Nunn

"If you want to really know what your friends and family think of you die broke, and then see who shows up for the funeral"

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It’s a harsh little dare dressed up as life advice: stop confusing financial usefulness with love. Coming from an athlete, the line reads like locker-room bluntness sharpened into a proverb. The setup is almost comedic in its cruelty - “die broke” isn’t a realistic plan so much as a thought experiment that strips away the stuff people perform around money: gratitude, loyalty, even basic politeness. The funeral becomes the final audit, a stage where appearances cost time instead of cash.

The intent isn’t morbid; it’s diagnostic. Nunn is aiming at the social fog that money creates. When you’re paying for dinners, lending cash, covering emergencies, you can mistake dependency for closeness. “Broke” functions as a solvent: remove the perks, and you see which relationships were built on affection versus access. It’s also a sideways critique of the way we treat generosity like an informal subscription service - you keep giving, they keep showing up.

The subtext carries a defensive edge: a warning from someone who’s likely seen attention spike with success and evaporate when the spotlight shifts. Athletes live inside a marketplace of favor where everyone has a reason to be near you, and few of those reasons survive a losing season, an injury, or retirement. The funeral detail is smart because it’s the one event where you can’t post, network, or negotiate; you’re not there to reward anyone. What’s left is the only metric Nunn trusts: who comes when there’s nothing to gain.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Nunn, Gregory. (2026, January 16). If you want to really know what your friends and family think of you die broke, and then see who shows up for the funeral. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-want-to-really-know-what-your-friends-and-130945/

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Nunn, Gregory. "If you want to really know what your friends and family think of you die broke, and then see who shows up for the funeral." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-want-to-really-know-what-your-friends-and-130945/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"If you want to really know what your friends and family think of you die broke, and then see who shows up for the funeral." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-want-to-really-know-what-your-friends-and-130945/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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