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Parenting & Family Quote by Danny Bonaduce

"If you're a kid in Southern California, somebody - whether it's you or your parents - somebody throws your hat into the ring and I think everyone had a commercial or two"

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There is something disarmingly casual - and quietly damning - in the way Bonaduce frames child acting as an almost automatic rite of passage: not a dream chased, but a hat tossed. The line’s power comes from how it spreads agency so thin it practically evaporates. "Somebody" does the throwing. Maybe it’s you, but more likely it’s your parents, or a neighbor with connections, or the gravitational pull of the zip code. In Southern California, he suggests, entertainment isn’t an industry over there; it’s weather.

The subtext is a culture where aspiration gets outsourced early. Kids don’t so much choose performance as drift into it, because the infrastructure is everywhere: casting calls, headshots, agents, classmates who just booked something. Saying "everyone had a commercial or two" is a comedian’s exaggeration with a sting. It normalizes the abnormal: putting children on camera becomes as routine as joining a soccer league, except the scoreboard is money, attention, and adult validation.

Bonaduce’s own biography (child stardom, public unraveling, reinvention) hangs behind the sentence like a cautionary caption. He’s not romanticizing the hustle; he’s describing a conveyor belt that turns childhood into content. The line lands because it sounds like small talk while pointing at a system: in Hollywood’s backyard, the entertainment economy doesn’t just recruit talent - it drafts families into believing that visibility is opportunity, even when it’s just exposure.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Bonaduce, Danny. (2026, January 16). If you're a kid in Southern California, somebody - whether it's you or your parents - somebody throws your hat into the ring and I think everyone had a commercial or two. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-youre-a-kid-in-southern-california-somebody--114097/

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Bonaduce, Danny. "If you're a kid in Southern California, somebody - whether it's you or your parents - somebody throws your hat into the ring and I think everyone had a commercial or two." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-youre-a-kid-in-southern-california-somebody--114097/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"If you're a kid in Southern California, somebody - whether it's you or your parents - somebody throws your hat into the ring and I think everyone had a commercial or two." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-youre-a-kid-in-southern-california-somebody--114097/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Danny Bonaduce (born August 13, 1959) is a Actor from USA.

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