"If you're always strict with yourself, life gets miserable. And we're supposed to enjoy life"
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The second sentence is the quiet provocation. “We’re supposed to enjoy life” reads like common sense, yet in a culture that treats enjoyment as something you earn after optimization, it lands as dissent. The phrasing “supposed to” is doing extra work: it frames joy as a legitimate expectation, not a guilty indulgence. That’s an actress’s instinct for audience and rhythm, too - a setup, then a release. The first line names the problem; the second grants permission.
Context matters here: performers live inside feedback loops, with bodies, moods, and choices always up for appraisal. Strictness can feel like armor. Maestro’s subtext is that armor eventually becomes a cage, and that self-acceptance isn’t laziness - it’s sustainability. The quote also sidesteps the wellness-industry cliché of “balance” and goes straight for the emotional truth: a life run like a compliance program isn’t a life you actually get to inhabit.
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| Topic | Happiness |
|---|---|
| Source | Help us find the source |
| Cite | Cite this Quote |
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Maestro, Mia. (n.d.). If you're always strict with yourself, life gets miserable. And we're supposed to enjoy life. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-youre-always-strict-with-yourself-life-gets-161553/
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Maestro, Mia. "If you're always strict with yourself, life gets miserable. And we're supposed to enjoy life." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-youre-always-strict-with-yourself-life-gets-161553/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"If you're always strict with yourself, life gets miserable. And we're supposed to enjoy life." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-youre-always-strict-with-yourself-life-gets-161553/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.









