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Daily Inspiration Quote by Mia Maestro

"If you're always strict with yourself, life gets miserable. And we're supposed to enjoy life"

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Self-discipline is supposed to be the virtuous engine of adult life; Mia Maestro punctures that story with a simple, almost mischievous reversal. “Always strict” sounds like moral hygiene, the kind of mantra that gets rewarded in auditions, diets, productivity culture, and the relentless performance of having it together. Maestro’s line doesn’t reject standards so much as it exposes their hidden cost: when self-policing becomes your default posture, you don’t become “better,” you become smaller. Life “gets miserable” not because effort is bad, but because constant austerity turns everyday living into an endless correction.

The second sentence is the quiet provocation. “We’re supposed to enjoy life” reads like common sense, yet in a culture that treats enjoyment as something you earn after optimization, it lands as dissent. The phrasing “supposed to” is doing extra work: it frames joy as a legitimate expectation, not a guilty indulgence. That’s an actress’s instinct for audience and rhythm, too - a setup, then a release. The first line names the problem; the second grants permission.

Context matters here: performers live inside feedback loops, with bodies, moods, and choices always up for appraisal. Strictness can feel like armor. Maestro’s subtext is that armor eventually becomes a cage, and that self-acceptance isn’t laziness - it’s sustainability. The quote also sidesteps the wellness-industry cliché of “balance” and goes straight for the emotional truth: a life run like a compliance program isn’t a life you actually get to inhabit.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Maestro, Mia. (n.d.). If you're always strict with yourself, life gets miserable. And we're supposed to enjoy life. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-youre-always-strict-with-yourself-life-gets-161553/

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Maestro, Mia. "If you're always strict with yourself, life gets miserable. And we're supposed to enjoy life." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-youre-always-strict-with-yourself-life-gets-161553/.

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"If you're always strict with yourself, life gets miserable. And we're supposed to enjoy life." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-youre-always-strict-with-yourself-life-gets-161553/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.

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Mia Maestro

Mia Maestro (born June 19, 1978) is a Actress from Argentina.

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