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Wit & Attitude Quote by Drew Barrymore

"If you're going to go through hell... I suggest you come back learning something"

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Hell, in Drew Barrymore's mouth, isn’t Dante. It’s TMZ, addiction headlines, a childhood spent performing before you’ve had a chance to become a person. The line works because it refuses the two most common scripts we offer suffering: the inspirational poster (“everything happens for a reason”) and the pity narrative (“look what it did to her”). Barrymore splits the difference with a bruised kind of practicality. If pain is unavoidable, she argues, then meaning is negotiable.

The intent is quietly corrective. She’s not romanticizing trauma; she’s issuing a boundary to the past. You don’t “win” by enduring hell, you win by extracting a lesson that changes your next choice. That verb, “suggest,” matters: it’s conversational, not preachy, a survivor’s tip rather than a sermon. It also signals agency. Hell is framed as a passage you move through, not a hometown you’re sentenced to.

The subtext is self-authorship. Barrymore’s public life has been a long tug-of-war between being packaged as a cautionary tale and insisting on being read as a grown woman with a career, a family, and a sense of humor about the wreckage. This line is a thesis statement for that reclamation: don’t let disaster be your only plot point.

Culturally, it lands in an era obsessed with “healing” language, where trauma can become both currency and content. Barrymore offers a cleaner, tougher standard: the story isn’t what happened to you; it’s what you learn on the way back.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Barrymore, Drew. (2026, January 15). If you're going to go through hell... I suggest you come back learning something. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-youre-going-to-go-through-hell-i-suggest-you-145381/

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Barrymore, Drew. "If you're going to go through hell... I suggest you come back learning something." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-youre-going-to-go-through-hell-i-suggest-you-145381/.

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"If you're going to go through hell... I suggest you come back learning something." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-youre-going-to-go-through-hell-i-suggest-you-145381/. Accessed 17 Feb. 2026.

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Drew Barrymore

Drew Barrymore (born February 22, 1975) is a Actress from USA.

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